Sunday, September 19, 2010

She'll Be One Soon!

Can you believe Babybottoms is going to be ONE YEAR OLD on 9/27? Twelve months sure did zoom by! She's maturing at a pretty quick pace and being doggedly independent (much like her ma). My baby is still a baby but fighting me every day to be a big girl. No one is more proud of her than me and her father. 

So, with that being said, I know there are some people who have grown close to her and want to share her first full year of life with her on her special day. However, we are not throwing her a birthday. This is in no way a reflection of what we feel you should do with your child. For one, we aren't really big "birthday" people and...Babybottoms is turning ONE...not 13, 16, 21, or 30. What happens on 9/27/10, she will forget all about when she wakes up on 9/28/10. With that being the case, we just wanted to spend that day with her...by ourselves.

Is that asking too much? I mean, not only is it affordable but it would mean more to us. When she came into this world, it was just me and daddy there. So until she expresses that she wants a party, which will probably be once she starts making friends, it'll more than likely just be us 3. Before anyone starts giving all the reasons as to WHY we should have a party, don't. I've heard all of those reasons since the moment I started telling people I was pregnant.

I just feel like...you're allowed to throw your kid a big, expensive, extravagant party and you don't want anyone telling you that you're wasting money so...let us do our thing over here. Each family operates differently; children can't miss something they've never had. I have no problem with children having parties and if my friends invited me to their kids event, I would more than likely come. I just don't like being made to feel like "because everyone does it" is why I should do it.  No, we're not mean ass parents who don't want Logan to have any fun. We just do things differently.

I mean, people are acting like I'm committing a sin before God because I haven't prepared a party, sent out invitations, and registered her for gifts. Everyone who claims to be important to our family should know her birthday and if they don't, they can ask. If they want to get her a gift for her birthday, they can. We aren't opposed to that either. We're just not having a party. What is so difficult to understand about that?

So for anyone who cares to know...my baby girl will be ONE, next Monday. Feel free to wish her another happy year of life :)

7 points of view:

ChoColAte KiSs said...

Its sooo crazy how much the internet has pulled US together, I feel like I know you know you, I read all your pregnancy woes everything, and I feel like I've grown with you and your child, such a wonderful thing, Aww tell pooda bear happy birthday and a kiss from me lol, ur internet friend (if I can be inclined to call myself as such), thats outside the ones your gonna be giving her for yourself...I Wish her lots of blessings as well as yourself

always4evamoi said...

already???? wow time sure flies....
you would think i know this seeing that i have a little one of my own, but nope, still a surprise of how fast they grow....

shm@people thinking u committing a crime for not having a party...who had the child? them or u? *pause* ok then!!

i also feel honored to have shared your life's moments with you (since MySpace). stay blessed.

will be back on Monday for those birthday wishes :)

ChiChi said...

Girl, WTH is wrong with people and throwing these babies parties?! I don't understand that shit at all. The party is really for you when they are that age because, like you said, they are too young to remember the shit. SMH My brother's financially challenged ass threw his baby at party when he turned one. He just turned 4 on the 5th and they didn't have one this year. Now you tell me which party have been more appropriate? LOL

CurvyGurl ♥ said...

Dang, seems like we were just talking about her impending arrival a few months ago. Wishing Babybottoms a happy early birthday!

*stacie-ann said...

idkkkkkkk. i'm on the fence about this. but i aint going to give you no reasons why, b/c i know how it feels to be adamant about a decision you've made & have people be adamant about changing your mind. i think that is a wonderful idea tho. if i wasn't so damn materialistic/traditional (sarcasm...sorta....kinda..lol) i'd do the same.

Happy Early Birthday Baby Bottoms!! AJ is coming right behind you...

Relevantlystaying said...

I cant believe she is already about to be one. (her and my mom share the same birthday)I agree with everyone else it seems like just the other day you were pregnant. Man...... time flies... Happy Birthday Baby Bottoms!
P.S. I think its pretty awesome that you are not feeding into the "birthday hype" and choose to create memories of your own!

AssertiveWit said...

thank you everyone for keeping up with me and Babybottoms for so long...you are all greatly appreciated!!! :) :::hugs:::

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