Friday, February 13, 2009

Some Ramblage...Nothing Life Threatening or Important

These moments where I feel like I can't write anything are VERY rare. Usually if I am not writing it is because I am busy.

At the moment, I have a TON of things to write about but because they are of a very personal nature, I have to stick to letting them sit in my brain and marinate. I am sure I will get them all out sooner or later but the kinds of things that are running circles around my brain at the moment are a little too much for me so I'm sure I'd be all over the place if I even attempted to get them out.

As of late, I am convinced that there is something in the water EVERYWHERE. I can name 10 people I know right now who have due dates for their babies between April and October. EVERYONE is getting knocked up...and it has made me a firm believer that there is NEVER the PERFECT time to have a crumbsnatcher. Another realization: growing babies (in the stomach) are vicious little gremlins who will eat you out of your stomach if you let them. Some of the stories that have recently been relayed to me has given me a new found respect for ANY woman who has EVER been pregnant.

Something else that has been everywhere but managing to work all kinds of nerves is this Chrhianna debacle. There are far more important things to be up in arms about but A LOT of people have picked sides BASED ON VERY LIMITED INFORMATION. When did people start putting this much faith in hesay/shesay? Why is it okay to look at this situation as something worthy of losing a career over but there was SOLID PROOF ON TAPE that Robert Kelly sleeps with underage girls and he still has a very vibrant career going for him? My dad always said "good will become bad and bad will become good"...maybe this was one of those things. What ever happened to being fair? What happened to being objective? Guess those things are somewhere off in the corner doing time with common sense...

(p.s. this is not a blog for lambasting Chris OR Rhi, for that matter. I don't agree with what the media has done with THEIR situation so please don't leave comments about him needing to be in jail or OBVIOUS one-sided opinions towards the situation; that's not why I posted this. I posted it because the situation itself has been blown out of proportion because people jump to conclusions based on LIMITED info...please be respectful of that. anyone who commented before I added this, I don't mind you sharing your opinion but I figured I should write this so it wouldn't turn into a "I Hate Chris Brown" session in my comments)

Let's see...oh...my latest pet peeve has been people who tell you "You just don't understand" AFTER you've told them SEVERAL times you understand where they are coming from and it becomes obvious that they are saying "you just don't understand" because you don't agree with them. They should really say, "Why won't you agree with me" because that's what it's really about. When will people UNDERSTAND that comprehension is not synonymous with the act of agreeing? I literally cease to want to talk to someone who will repeatedly tell me I don't understand when I KNOW I do. There is nothing more you can say they want to hear other than, "Yea, you're right". If I don't think you're right and you aren't being rational nor logical, you'll never hear it so it's better you just stop talking to me altogether. No hard feelings; we just don't agree. DOESN'T MEAN I DON'T UNDERSTAND YOU.

I finally get to move out of my hellacious apartment and into one that has insulation. I'm convinced I was getting mold poisoning in this place. All this moisture and me not being able to breathe at night is a bad combination. I currently have concrete floors but it will be back to carpet for me and I am not upset about that at all!!! I look forward to vacuuming once a week versus sweeping EVERY DAMN DAY.

I believe the rest of this year has a lot of positive things in store for me so for all the negative things that have happened thus far, I count my blessings and just remain grateful that it isn't worse. And that is the end of my rambling...

14 points of view:

CaramelKisses said...

You call it "rambling", but I still think that they are "postings with a point"...lol

i think that many women are preggers because during the winter many of these couples just have sex to pass time versus actually going some place.. you are right, for me there is no perfect time to get pregnant at all...lol

I also hate when people feel as through you don't comprehend their point because you don't agree. i also hate when they audaciously place the blame of you not comprehending on the fact of age, gender, or race (instead of, ijust don't agree)..that one really bothers me...

Don't you get me started on that chris brown/rihanna...I tried to hold on that it was rumors or a bad publicity stunt, but apparently chris is just really stupid...

Enjoy my stay on your blog as usual...lol

Happy Valentine's Day!!!

Miss.Stefanie said...

Im with Carmel...many become pregnant during winter because you have nothing else to do but cuddle when you are in doors.


Stay positive and good things will be in store for you!

jeanette nicole* said...

I cannot walk around my office w/o running into a pregnant lady!

Also, I don't know why, but I am oddly fascinated with the CB/Rih situation.

Allweez said...

I hate Chris Brown!!...No seriously I think they've treated them both unfair also. And I think the photo shopped images of Rihanna's "bruises" are so not cool.

Ms. Independent said...

Pregnancy is spreading like a disease around here and I know I'm trying to stay immune to that one.

I've been buying more baby clothes and just baby "stuff" in the past few months than anything else.

Oddly, all of them are boys to. I can think of only one friend that will be having a girl. Everyone else either just had or is about to have a boy.

Number Five said...

I love babies/...babies,babies,babies and I'm insanely, annoyingly happy when i find out someone has a bun in the oven. I was working with toddlers today (they're the most awesome people ever) and they're just such a joy. Kids are scary but what they give me as a non mom is probably 1/12th of what they will give to new mommies! *sigh* tick,tick,tick goes my biological clock lmao

I hate chris brown, I hate rhianna. I normally would have an opinion but they both just annoy the holy hell out of me, so womp womp wooomp lol

Solomon said...

I feel your post, but I have vowed to keep it positive, no negative nothin' for me!

It could always be worse, so I am looking forward to a positive year ahead.

I will let the negativity roll off my back, like water off a ducks ass!

Mr. Jolla said...

The sheer irony of C.B. and Rihanna's song titles make me smile on the innards of my blackened heart.

Craigjc said...

You gotta admit though; without Chrianna, the gossip blogs would be dead. Not that they aren't already though. I will reserve judgment on the sichi-ation myself. I thought they were a cute couple.

ohlalaitsamd said...

yeaa..the whole..'everyone getting knocked up' is sooo tru..it's craZy..and yest I was telling my fiance.."this day right here (VDay)..is why we have soo many Scorpios in the world..considering me my mom my dad my aunt 2 cousins and then my fiancee his dad sis..and 2 uncles are all scorpios not considering friends and the rest of the world..lol..thnx for subscribing<3

phallatio said...

Yes, allowing things to marinate is a very good idea! We would all do well to count to ten before opening our mouths ... but we never do!

As far as Chris Brown and Rihanna go, I have heard a wide variety of stories. One is that Rihanna confessed to him that she had given him herpes, hence his violent reaction. The second story is that this is not the first time he has hit her, and he probably struggles with the enormous attention she receives!

Stepfanie said...

I really liked the quote you said was from your father "good will become bad and bad will become good" That is very very true. Loved the "rambling".

Torrance Stephens - All-Mi-T said...

i get folks not understanding me a lot - i just accept it and move on

ChiChi10 said...

Girl, bye! Since when have people been known to be fair and objective? LOL

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